The female G-spot is legendary, but what about the male? Turns out there is one too. In this article we explain where it is and how to properly stimulate it.
What is the male G-spot?
Oh yes, the male G-spot is real. This is not fiction and not an attempt to attract as many readers as possible. Another question is what is more correct to call it point P. And to most of the public it's commonly known as the prostate.
The prostate is located between the base of the penis and the rectum, a walnut-sized gland that a man needs to produce sperm. The secret is that there are many nerve endings in the prostate, making it an ideal spot for maximum pleasure.
By the way, this is confirmed by research: scientists have found that prostate orgasm causes 12 muscle contractions, while penile orgasm causes only 3-5 contractions. In other words, if you connect the prostate to sexual play, a man can have an orgasm two (or even three times) stronger than usual.
How to prepare for a quest
Many men are prejudiced with anal sex. Although, of course, prostate stimulation can't change a heterosexual's orientation (and if it can, he's not that straight after all). So if you want to search for point P, you need to get your partner's consent first. In addition, experts advise sharing in detail what you intend to do so that he can make an informed decision.
Since the anus doesn't produce natural lubrication, it's important to make sure you have a water-based lubricant on hand (preferably tasteless and unscented so as not to accidentally cause skin irritation). Also, make sure to file your nails so as not to damage the delicate area, or at least use a glove as a barrier.
stimulation rules
So now you know where point P is and your husband doesn't mind trying. What next? It can be difficult for a beginner to decide on the right course of action to take, so take the following techniques on board:
- "Come here" movement.By making movements with your index finger as if asking someone to come, you can stimulate the prostate gently enough not to startle your partner, but at the same time actively enough to give him new sensations. Start slowly and then increase your speed.
- circles and wobbles.Circular and wiggling movements also work well, the speed of which should also be gradually increased. Keep in mind that too much pressure on the prostate can create an urge to go to the bathroom, so it's great for a man to empty his bladder before sex.
- sex toy.If you don't want to go anywhere with your finger but want to experiment, use massagers for anal play. With them, in the same way, you can vary the speed and type of vibrations, so that the partner does not lose anything, but also vice versa.
In conclusion, we remind once again that body parts do not have a sexual orientation, so a couple can safely practice anal sex in both directions. And we separately note that if the partner says at the same time that he does not like it and he needs to stop, then you should listen to him. In the end we are all different. You can try next time it's done again, but for now, do something you always enjoy.